No ceremony

So the topic the wedding has been being bounced around. My guy and myself has basically decided to just get married by a judge and then having a reception later on. I wanted to get some opinions from a few people that are close to me. Seeing as for one I am terrified to tell some of my family. And two I didn't really have a wedding last time lol. These are basically the answers I got back.

T. -That's what you did for the first wedding. Had ceremony then nothing else. It's your day. Entirely up to you and what you think you want. Do have baby now. Things are expensive. What are you going to want to have to remember.

M. - All up to you.

N. - That sounds like a great idea, to be honest. I don't really see the point of a big humongous shin dig. Screw them. It's your life and you can do what you want. You'll share the happiness with people eventually, but you just need to do what's best for you.

L. - You could if you wanted to. With a baby, it may be easier for you to do it that way and just plan a reception later. Take it from some who made the mistake of letting her family take over her wedding planning, do what you feel is going to be best. You Wil be happiest doing what you want to for your wedding.

So basically all saying it's up to me. And i think it basically made up my mind on what I want to do. Yes I would love to have pictures with my guy and I all dressed up in wedding attire. And get to deal with what flowers or food I want. Hey I still get to do food lol I just relized that. Walking down an aisle might be fun and having brides maids would be fun.. except picking on who.. to many people I would love to pick. Lol. But to me in the end I don't think non of that matters. As long as I get the same end result. I just need the
courage to tell my grandparents and my dad lol.